Are my dating standards too high
But let’s say that you were satisfying his every need.Why would he be having these sexy, flirtatious conversations with these other women?Rather than wanting him to change, the better path is to move towards understanding each other better.Understanding each other is the basis of connection.
I give him everything that he needs sexually, emotionally, physically and mentally, but still he flirts with other girls and has sexy conversations with them. You’re making a whole lot of assumptions in your question…
Do you know what’s at the core of why women put up with behavior they find unacceptable? The reality of it is that if you want to mentally and emotionally be in a place where you have any say in your relationship, you have to diminish your fear of loss.
Let me shift your attention to the fact that you this guy.
You chose him – you knew what kind of an animal he was when you started going out.
It’s not like one morning he just went out and started having sexy flirtations with other women all of a sudden and you were shocked. but secretly you hoped and believed that he would change for you.
I mean, all of his sexual needs are completely met by you, right? And all of his emotional needs are met by you, so it can’t be that he enjoys the ego boost of feeling desired by a woman…