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He told me he admired my understanding and said he still loved me but that he felt that maybe he could never change into being someone with a family and stability.
We said our goodbyes and exchanged an e-mail telling eachother that we really loved eachother. The same week all this happened i dated someone else and i am still with this person 2 years later.
A year after our break up i dicovered that he had in fact been seing someone else during the whole time.
I confronted him, and he admited it – saying he got into this relationship intentionally so he wouldn’t get back together with me, as he had done so many times before.
Q: I separated from my boyfriend of 6 years more than 3 years ago.
It was a very passionate relationship and we had 13 years age difference he was older.
We spent 6 years of our lives together isn’t that worth anything? As you pointed out, it may well have to do with unresolved issues with your dad another older man in your life who abandoned you and didn’t give you what you needed.
I was devastated when i discovered he’d been lying to me. The same day i found out about his lies and confronted him i told him how i felt, and then told him i forgave him and that all he could have done was be honest with me and i would have understood.I know it was a bad relationship and would not want to get back together, but sometimes i just miss him so much. A: I’m sorry that you feel so upset about this breakup, especially since you have now been with someone else for over two years. Apparently there is a man in your life who loves you enough to stay with you even though you are not fully with him. I strongly urge you to find a counselor to help you work through your issues around abandonment and trust. Please get the help you need to let go of the past so you can have a fully intimate relationship for the rest of your adult life. 3 years-ish ago, I met a guy online, we’ll call him “D”, on Myspace. If he isn’t interested, or wasn’t interested 3 years ago…why does he keep calling/texting/tweeting/emailing/facebooking? He’s lent a virtual hand during hard times in my life, sends me small (non creepy) presents for my birthday and Christmas and seems to be a great guy…but it’s so hard to tell, since he won’t ever come out from behind the computer. But I mean, his mom clearly comments on his posts, and I just can’t imagine she isn’t real! He likes having an attractive girl give him attention but he doesn’t have to step up to the plate and actually “DO” anything. Hey D, you’re probably reading this…since you follow me on Twitter and all! Why would you invest so much in someone you never plan to meet?
Again, not a big love affair, but definitely something with potential. Now, we’re friends on Facebook and Twitter, and he drunk texts me ALL. Gathering from the social media stalking I’ve done, he’s single…goes out all the time, doesn’t have a girlfriend or ten kids…and there’s no reason we haven’t hung out. To be honest, I’m not interested in him romantically in any way-I mean, a guy who takes 3 years to get something done is not attractive! He’s shy/intimidated-this has been his excuse before but I’m not sure I buy it.