Dating and sex for nerds and nice guys
” Lame just lame.” # “DC women are very superficial…they are sizing you up to see how you can benefit them and their career. they all will have law degree’s, mba’s or some silly phd and they will make sure that’s the first thing you know about them.They’re gonna be looking at your clothes, car, and all the other dumb shit they use to measure you.” # “Just about every 6 chick found in a DC bar/club thinks she’s a 10 and has her 24-7 bitch shield up.Shoot, I am a white dude who works out constantly (9% body fat only), dresses sharp and makes it a point to always smile (I have nice teeth), yet the number of times girls give me the eye roll here is unreal!But can any generalisations be made on this subject? Still, while I’ve experienced the best of times in bed with Chinese men, I’m willing to admit I’ve had my worst of times too.And a recent sex survey did say that Chinese men feel less satisfied as a whole with sex than Westerners. Or that Chinese men are less passionate or romantic as lovers?Sometimes, I dream of being a tall celebrity cat as that seems to be about the only foolproof method of getting GOOD-LOOKING women in DC.” # “I’ve also noticed that the au-pair market has shrunk.I dated some au-pairs back in ’05-06 and although it was transient, at least I wasn’t lonely.
They go through the motions and count the days to retirement but they enjoy the security of a government job.
But that avenue seems very diminished now.” # “Cosign on the decreased au pair sightings. There are so few that the fat Polish girl who would get no love back in her hometown is getting approached 20 times a night in DC.
I knew a mediocre Brazilian girl (a 5) come to DC and tell me how amazing it is that guys offer to buy her drinks and take her for rides on boats (Georgetown).
Any idea why my Singaporean (Chinese) lover is so terrible in bed? In the past his gfs have been Chinese and Singaporean..
He is 35, has had long term relationships, has been exposed to the west as he is a successful producer and has been all over the world, he is exposed to the concept of good sex through films and media… When I asked Chinese friends they say in Chinese culture men are less romantic and more passive and don’t want to give pleasure to women.
but I do hear western men talking of their Chinese girlfriends and how they have never had orgasm etc.