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I thought about doing that but to be honest, there are so many sites and so many people on them, who has that kind of time? We have sex daily (and not just vanilla sex, either), I keep myself in great shape and am enthusiastic. But now that you say you get them and never go to those types of sites I don't know what to think! That e-mail account gets loads of dating site spam. One of those accounts was mainly used as a way to snoop on the estranged husband's dating site profiles. And that account was used to enroll in several of the dating sites as part of that. I have about 110 Favorites, and I belong to all the major things.. I belong to review websites like Yelp and a bunch of boards as well. (if their are other things amiss, then share them, if this is the only thing that doesn't feel right, I would ignore it) I have never ever been on a dating site, and I get stuff in my spam and junk for dating sites, penis enlargement, shoot I get stuff for rogaine, and I am a girl. My husband got upset at that spam before, when he was gone the last time, i had looked at his email..mail there was an email or two from a dating site, SEE HONEY!!!!
Also, you usually have to become a member to view profiles and that's not something I really want to do. The other e-mail account used for my daily life gets hardly any of that spam. That e-mail account gets loads of dating site spam. I even visit off the wall sites too like and such..
That being said, it's my turn to ask for some imput. We are in our mid 40's with grown children who do not live with us. The sad thing is that even when times are good he has exhibited some pretty bad behavior. I can not speak for your hubby, but I know that I am an ecstatically married relationship coach and do not surf one single "dating site" and yet at this moment right now I have 133 emails in my inbox and 303 in my spam filter, and about 1 in 3 of those emails is some sort of "Singles" ad or another. One of the things I had to do was to set up what was called a honeypot. All we had to do was click on a link on even nonsexual websites. And we'd use the email address to send and receive email--not even to any odd addresses at all. You will never get rid of it, all it does is increase.
Do you have to currently be going to sites to receive this kind of spam mail? It is my experience that if you are "out there" on the internet at all--like if you have a website, blog, facebook and twitter--that your name is sold to some of these sleezy places and they will solicit. But to accuse someone of dating sites just because of spam is wide of the mark IMO.
If he has 500 spam in his mailbox, I would say half or more are from dating sites. I have known that in the past (during his bad behavior times, he has cruised Adult Friend Finder type of sites). My Dear Hubby can see my screen, and he knows that I do not go on even ONE dating site. It's enough to make you both be impressed with antivirus software vendors and want to light your laptop on fire and go offline. Only with an effective spam filter or any action by service providers will it reduce but even then its a constant never ending battle.
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If you are cruising the net in an innocent manner, then you wont get those things. I get all kinds of strange spam from f*#kbook, singles, viagra, penis enlargement.... Anyway, I'm all over the internet and have never trolled dating or hook up sites, but still get tons of this stuff.